Wave goodbye to Excessmas

It is the most wonderful time of year… or, at least, it is supposed to be.  Yet, for many, Christmas can equal excess expectations and extreme expense or indulgence.  Has it all become a bit too ‘extra’ for most of us? Wave goodbye to Excessmas this year.

Fortunately, it looks to be the year that ‘excessmas’ takes a back seat.  Research reveals a backlash against the Insta-perfect of prepping, cooking, gorging and one-upmanship shopping.

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How to arrange a stress-free Hen Party

Us ladies have it tough when it comes to arranging a hen party.  If you are lucky enough to be given the responsibility, there can be a lot of pressure.  Has it been something that the bride-to-be has dreamt of since she was a little girl? And how do you accommodate different personal budgets, their time and worst of all, expectations?

Hen party

Love yourself in a bikini

How do you find contentment on the beach? Deep down we know people are not really looking at you. They are not judging us for our size and how many love handles we may or may not have. But we all have that ‘moment’ before we go away about being seen in a bikini. Here are some of my tips to help love yourself in a bikini.

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Unsurprisingly, I could not find many pictures of me in my swimwear. This one is a rather pink me, I am ginger skinned after all, in my tankini at Xel-Ha in Mexico in September 2017.

Spice World – Is rum the new gin?

Spiced rum has gained popularity over the past few years. More varieties are available on the high street and in bars and restaurants. But what is it about the spirit that appeals to consumers? And how does it compare to other types of rum?

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Peaky Blinder Black Spiced Rum. Picture courtesy of Rum and Fizz in Cardiff

The Gin to My Tonic – Gin Brunch in Cardiff

Unless you have been living under a rock for the last few years, you will have noticed that Gin is very much in style.  From Gin distillery tours to Gin tastings and even Gin and tonic tea bags – Gin is undeniably a firm favourite. Here’s my experience of a Gin Brunch in Cardiff.

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Gin Brunch in Cardiff: Fresh Pressed Juices – Kiwi Kickstart Apple, Cucumber, Kiwi, Pear, Lime & Wheatgrass

Hello Wine Lovers! It’s National Rosé Day

So, I love a cold glass of rosé! As an older teen and even in my twenties, I did not get the fascination with drinking wine, but now I do appreciate a good bottle. As I do have a sweet tooth, I tend to go for a bottle of pink. The perfect opportunity to celebrate National Rosé Day.

National Rosé Day

Viva Forever! The Spice Girls Reunion Tour 2019 in Cardiff

Many people would have spent months eagerly awaiting the date. After buying the tickets months in advance for the Spice Girls Reunion Tour in the Principality Stadium, Cardiff.  Not me!  When the tickets went on sale last year, I was caught up in the excitement of the “Power of Five”. But, with saving to buy a house and seeing them in the O2 Arena on their last reunion tour in December 2007, I could not commit. However, after a drunken brunch with friends, we purchased tickets, deciding to “Never Give Up on the Good Times”, a week before.

Spice Girls in Cardiff

Buying your first home, what you should know and what to expect


Buying your first home should be exciting. So, why do they make it so complicated? I actually think it is better that I am buying a house in my mid-30’s and not younger. After years of saving and listening to everyone’s ‘ house buying horror stories’, I felt ready and prepared when we started looking earlier this year.

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